Stitch Fix Recap - May 2017

I've found that with each fix they learn more about my likes and dislikes. This was my 5th one and I think they've got my number.

You probably know the deal by now: you fill out a personal online profile, one of their stylists selects clothes for you, and sends 5 items for you to try on at home. Whatever you don't like you send back and you keep and pay for what you do like. (For the whole run down, visit the Stitch Fix website.)

This time I requested an everyday gold necklace, a couple day dresses for running around with the kids, and lightweight casual items for the summer heat.

Here's what came in my box:

THML Zinia Embroidered Knit Dress $68

I liked the color (one I don't normally pick out for myself), the style, and the embroidered detail around the collar and hem. Details like this are something I feel makes Stitch Fix pieces a little more unique. However, it just so happened that I got a red dress the day before my fix came. Nonetheless, I tried this one on, but it was too loose and too long for my liking.

Decision: Sent it back.

Abriel Crochet Detail Blouse $38

This was such a tough decision for me. At first glance, I didn't care for the muted colors and when I tried it on it seemed too flowy. But when I looked at the pictures, I liked it. I was very lightweight for summer and unlike anything else I already own. It had, again, those details I like, crochet at the shoulders (covered by my hair in the picture).

Decision: It was a down to the wire decision, but I sent it back. I wanted something brighter that went with more than just white and denim.

Q&A Yesmen Henley Blouse $48

This is totally my style. Loved the cut, color, & fabric weight. I wanted to wear it right away.

Decision: Put it on a hanger in my closet immediately and kept it.

Loveappella Carlita Knit Maxi Dress $78

I mean, I get what the stylist was going with the flattering cut and all (v-neck, empire waist, maxi length), but, one, I feel like the maxi dress rage has passed, and two, the print was too psychedelic for me. As a matter of fact, I had a similar skirt sent in a past fix that I returned. Additionally, it was too tight at the top (I think that's a first!).

Decision: Threw it in the return bag immediately.

Bay to Baubles Chrisiano Pre-Layered Geo Necklace $34

I liked this necklace, but again, as luck would have it, acquired a gold pendant necklace before the fix came.

Decision: Sent it back, hesitantly

Overall Impression of this Fix
I still like the experience of getting Stitch Fix. I like being able to try on the items with clothes in my closet to make a decision. I also try new things I wouldn't pick for myself, like the red dress and gold necklace. They push my comfort zone ever-so-slightly and, in some cases, help me figure out what I don't like. I'm impressed with how well most of the clothes fit, as that is a big challenge for me in most stores. And it's just fun to get a package in the mail with goodies hand-picked for you.

If you do decide to give it a go for the first time, do me a favor and use this link to sign up so I can get a credit towards my next box! When you sign up you get a referral link too to pass on to your friends. Thanks, and good luck!

https://www.stitchfix.com/referral/3630084

What do you think about my choices? Have you had a fix yet? What did you think? Comment below.

Book Reviews: A win and a fail

I've read two books so far this year. The first book, I'm recommending to everyone. The second, I'll warn people away from.

The first book I read I received at Christmas. I love the idea of books as gifts. They are personal as well as an "experience" gift. When you read a good book, it takes you away, out of your world, into someone else's so much so that you think about returning to the characters' lives when you're away.

The book The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt was an amazing read. It was one of those books I stayed up too late reading in bed each night. Without giving too much away, it's about a teen boy in NYC who loses his single mother in an explosion at an art museum they are visiting together. The story follows Theo in the aftermath as he navigates his formative years without any parental influence (a mother's nightmare!). But what makes it exciting is the undercurrent of the secret he carries with him, which explodes into a thrilling action-packed ending. It was such a page-turner and beautifully written. The wording was just delicious. Tartt used lovely vocabulary with many words going over my head because I didn't want to stop to look them up...which means I wanted to reread it as soon as I finished it to appreciate the prose. Get this book.

The second book I read had big shoes to fill. I was looking for a book to read that took place in New York City to get me in the mood for an upcoming trip. Someone I follow on Instagram has book club and selected the book. I chose it based on the fact that it took place in NYC and the cute cover. (You should never judge a book by the cover, right?!)

The book Rich and Pretty by Rumann Alam was disappointing. It was about friends-from-grade-school Sarah and Lauren. One comes from an affluent New York family and the other, the "pretty" one, is from a typical middle-class family who gets a scholarship to a private school in the city. They became friends as children--one is outgoing, the other shy--and the story picks up when they are in their mid-twenties. And then nothing happens. One has angst, and the other doesn't know why. Heck, I didn't know why. Additionally, the author was a man, which I couldn't help thinking seemed odd...he just didn't seem to get inside of a woman's mind and psyche as this book tried to do. In summary, it was monotonous and didn't go anywhere. ...So I didn't finish the last 20 or so pages of it--which I rarely do--once I figured out it was never going to get better.

Have you read any good books lately? What have you read and loved, and alternately, read and hated? Comments welcome.

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When you try something outside your fashion comfort zone

I'm fashionably safe. I don't take big risks, jump on new trends, or wear bold clothing.
However, it's a goal of mine to take small risks outside my somewhat cautious style.
When I saw this top in the store, my conservative self was drawn to the classic navy and white stripes.

I mean, can I ever have enough stripes? But when I pulled it off the rack, I noticed it was a shorter, almost midriff length...like I used to wear in high-school. I debated trying it on. Could I pull this off in my forties? To the dressing room I went. Nothing to lose.
Because of the great price, I decided to take it home with me even though I was still unsure.
Once there, I tried it with a couple things, but wasn't quite convinced I had the right thing to make it.
Fast forward to last week, when I was getting ready for a school function and decided to throw it on with jeans. Under the pressure of a time-crunch, I added some neutral shoes, a couple of bracelets and headed out.

You guys, I got so many compliments on it that night! I put a little thought into it and here's why I think the midriff style worked for me:

• I have a longer torso and shorter legs. The cropped length made my leg line appear longer.
• The A-line cut camouflaged my straight waist
• The structured top made it dressy casual. 
• And it has a fun split in the back that made it a little more unique. 

What I learned is that I have a new style of shirt open to me, and I'm glad I took that small risk outside my normal comfort zone. Which is one of the reasons why I find shopping at TJ Maxx and similar stores so fun: you can try something out for a very small investment. Even though it may not last through a year (or may fall apart in the wash), it served as a learning piece and I can invest in similar, more quality pieces going forward.

What new trend have you recently tried?  

A fast and easy way to update your look

Once upon a time, in a previous life full of time and disposable income, I went to the makeup counter once or twice a year for new cosmetics. When kids came along, I found myself either exactly replacing what I already had, or picking up new items at Target or the grocery store. After all those years, I'd gotten into a rut.

I decided to treat myself last weekend to a new lip shade. Not from Publix, from a makeup counter. I went to the cosmetics mecca: Sephora. Just stepping into the store can be completely overwhelming. There are so many products, so many colors.

I immediately found a nice young salesperson to help me--a guide in my journey--and asked for a lip gloss similar to what I was wearing. She looked at me like, we haven't carried that shade in years, lady, and I decided right then to abandon my preconceived idea of replacing what I owned. I would be bold and try something new. I asked instead for a neutral everyday color that would match my fair skin and light hair. That she could do.

She brought back a few choices in a color much lighter than I would have selected on my own. With my mind open to new options, I tried them. Along with her help, I narrowed it down and selected a new shade that I loved. What fun!

Feeling brave, I decided to get another, darker color for evening. She brought back a dark plum color, which I tried, even though it scared me.

No, just no. Way too much out of my comfort zone. So we dialed it back a bit and after a few more trials, I ended up with a berry color that was darker than I would've picked out, but liked.

My new everyday shade and night shade. I love them!

I felt so adventurous with my new shades and more hip. ("Hip," I've come to realize, is the word  middle-age people use when they are trying something more youthful. My parents used to say it, and now I'm using it, which is actually pretty un-hip if you think about it.)

I'd forgotten how much better quality the products from the makeup counter are. The colors are less shimmery and more true, not to mention, the selection is amazing. I've also noticed the color lasts longer and wears better than my grocery store brand. One of the glosses even has peppermint oil, which naturally plumps the lips. Oolala!

My new haul: Kir Royale lip cream by Buxom, Goals lip paint and Latergram lip crayon by Tarte

What I learned is that it's worth the time and money to take yourself back to the beauty bar for a refresher. While it can be intimidating to step up to the counter, remember the staff is well-trained to help you if you tell them what you want. You might ask what are customers' favorites, what is a good value and what are their favorite products. You can even have them teach you how to apply the makeup if you agree to purchase a minimum amount.

So while "contouring" still intimidates the heck out of me, I know I can take baby steps with the guidance of makeup experts at the counter. With their help, I'll make sure my makeup stays "hip."

Next time, a new eye shade.